Will you be my date to prom?
By: Ryan Lim
No one wants to be alone on one of the greatest nights of the school year. Juniors and seniors have planned their prom night weeks in advance, but the initial step of asking a date to prom can be the most daunting part of the process. This year, some Clark Chargers decided to go the extra mile and come up with incredibly unique ways to ask out their date.
Having to present a slideshow project to the class seems like an ordinary task, but senior Barada Moncravie took this task and added a unique twist.
Barada was in his first period AP Lit and Comp class and he and his group were presenting their slideshow. At the end of the slide show came a surprising slide.
The slide consisted of a picture of Barada’s back: shirtless and written on. The message read, “Nikki, go to prom with this guy”.
Nikki, or Nicole Arevalo, was seated during the slideshow and at the sight of the picture, was surprised.
“She said yes, we hugged, and that was that,” Moncravie said.
The to-do list worth completing
With summer coming around, seniors have a limited time to do what they’ve always wanted to do before they graduate.
For senior Luke Tanaka, that meant asking his girlfriend, Miwako Schlageter, to prom.
“[Miwako] said she wanted to get asked with a sign,” Tanaka said.
However, Luke didn’t just make a sign simply asking Miwako to prom, he added the personalization of making a to-do list sign for Miwako on her birthday.
“I wrote her a fairly long letter which had a few inside jokes and at the end I included directions to go to Dr. Wong’s room at the end of the period. I had a friend give her the letter, and after school, I waited by Dr. Wong’s room.”
Luke gave Miwako her birthday gift before she could see the sign, and when Miwako did see the sign, she said yes and the two hugged.
For a lot of people, settling down in a nice house with a white picket fence is the American dream.
For Prom Princess Emily Strickler, that has been fulfilled… sort of.
Her prom date, senior John Diaz, utilized his crafty skills and created a little house with an interesting design. The roof read, “You have the house and the white picket fence, now all you need is a prom date…” and the fence read, “Emily, will you go to prom”.
John left the house on Emily’s desk in the student council room and hid in the closet.
“I was rather nervous. She took a REALLY long time to walk into the room after I had got there, which made it worse,” said Diaz.
When Emily did finally come to the room, she read the house, and as she was finishing reading the fence, John Diaz walked out with the last picket that said, “with me?!”
According to John, “She was excited and happy!” (and she accepted his offer).
The purrrrfect ask
When Nevin Endy decided to ask Cici Zhang to prom, he included some of the small things he knew about her to make his request more personal.
The first step in Nevin’s plan was to buy balloons in Cici’s favorite colors, pink and teal. The store didn’t have teal, so light blue was substituted.
Next, he went to Build-A-Bear and bought a stuffed cat, which is her favorite animal.
“The cool thing about Build-A-Bear is that you can buy a ‘record your own message’ type button that goes into your stuffed animal,” said Endy.
He hid the balloons and cat in a box equipped with a “guide” on how to open it. Nevin then left the box at the entrance of the orchestra room.
When Cici came, opened the box, and pressed for the cat’s message, Nevin came out of the orchestra room with flowers for her.
“She seemed to be very happy and I’m glad to call her my prom date,” Endy said.
Pleas work too
Although it’s conventional that a guy asks a girl to prom, Student Body President Mariah Eppes took matters into her own hands and asked junior Brent Mayfield to be her date.
According to Mariah, she actually BEGGED Brent to go to prom with her.
“I pretended to cry. It was great,” said Eppes.
After the show Mariah put up, Brent found it impossible to decline Mariah’s offer.
Continuing with ways girls have asked guys to prom, I was asked in a pretty interesting way also.
During my student council period, we were busy making signs for the assembly when I was told that I, along with Shawnell Riggins, were selected to win a Student Council prize.
I was blind-folded and guided into a Student Council closet.
When given the go, I removed the blindfold and saw Dani Gonzalez, Maricruz Soto-Valdez, and a piñata.
On the floor were eight or so party favors and I was told the right one had a message written on it. One by one, I blew on them, and when I got to the last one, the message said, “It would be a fiesta if you went to prom with us!”
I undoubtedly said yes, and took pictures with Mari and Dani.
These were just some of the ways Clark Chargers have asked their dates to prom this year. Asking someone to prom may be nerve wracking, but the more creative you get, the better your chances are.




Wow … this brings back memories.
I remember the day like it was yesterday: My prom date was going to ask me with balloons. With messages inside. During 5th period AP English.
But I caught wind of the pending proposal early, and I went home sick to evade the ask!
We asked, regardless of my evasion. He just delivered them to my (safer – more private) home.
And then I got chicken pox the week before prom. Can you say, karma?
Cute post…
I never went to my prom.
This is so cute! It really brings back memories. Mind if I link to it in my post?
Wow. Those are really smart ideas.
I never got asked like that, i always went with my boyfriend. Which is kinda sad because then it was just implied I’d go with him, I never got to feel the thrill of having someone ask me.
I really enjoyed reading your posts. I never went to prom:(
Now I get to sound like an old fart because when I was asked to prom, I was simply asked. No balloons or elaborate set ups. I was happy to go both times. It was a lovely time.
aww sweethearts!:) I’m glad that even in this day of modern internet technology where text, facebook and twitter are the popular means of communication, there are still guys who dare to be sweet to come up with creative ways in inviting their prom dates.
That’s a thumbs up and a high five for you guys!:) Have fun at your prom!:)
Congratulations on being FP!
guys didn’t do this stuff when i was in high school. I feel like i missed out!
Stumbled across this post from the WordPress front page. Here’s some advice that I wish I’d have had when I was in high school.
Guys – Unless you’re asking your best friend to prom, this is terrible advice. It’s try-hard, and girls (especially the cute ones) don’t go for try-hard. Bending over backwards in an elaborate attempt to try to get a girl to notice you is bad game and will get you nothing but an empty wallet and the phrase “let’s just be friends.”
Instead, hit the gym. You’ve heard it a thousand times: Girls love confidence. Nothing boosts confidence like throwing around a little iron. I was always afraid of jocks in high school. Now, barring the fact that I’m bored senseless by professional sports, I am a jock. You can’t beat ‘em, so join em. A few months in the weight room and you’ll be on your way to ultra badassery.
Step 2: Man up and talk to the girl a few times. Walk in the room like you own the place. Direct eye contact. Cocky smile. You’re the man and you know it. Tell a funny story or two. Tease her about having something stuck in her teeth. Establish a little rapport – You can’t ask a girl out that you’ve never had a conversation with.
Memorize and deliver the following:
“Hey. We should hang out sometime. I’m taking you to prom.”
Most importantly – if you get rejected, move on. You’ll get rejected your whole life – college applications, job interviews, etc. Getting rejected isn’t the end of the world and it builds character.
Girls – You’ve got it quite a bit easier. Just ask the dude. Most guys will be pretty stoked to be asked out by a girl.
Hope my little guide helps. You can thank me with cash, check or major credit cards. Until next time!
What fun! I wish I was going to prom again – glad Nikki said yes
I remember prom was such a fun time! It can be one of the happiest nights of your high school tenure. I hope it’s a fun night!
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LEGAL…
who WOULDN’T with this guy?
Thank you to the juniors and seniors who shared their stories!
So sweet!
The other day during English, the door was open, and we saw a boy holding a lovely bouquet of red roses get kicked out of the class next door, to the disappointment of the students. At the end of the period, the boy had gone back in and we heard cheering and whistling from next door.
He’d slipped out of his class to present a bouquet and prom tickets to a girl in front of her entire math class.
I was asked to senior prom in my sophomore year. It undoubtedly surprised me, even though it was done in a conventional way. After some contemplation, I agreed.
Nice post and congratz on being FP!
Good one!!!
Cute post. Congrats on Freshly Pressed.
Hats off to them…
xx
Awww… I like the first one! This brings back some good old memories…
)) Now I wannt go back to highschool! XD
Awww… I think prom is such a sweet idea. We don’t have those in Brazil. We have graduation balls but people don’t usually have a date for those… Anyway, there are some very brave girls and some very creative guys in your school! Very nice post.
God bless you.
Lil.
Thats ghajini style…or for you memento..
I once wrote a song asking a girl to a dance.
She turned me down but also got food poisoning, so it kind of still worked out.
This is a heart-warming article
I wish people were this more heartfelt and creative at my school. I’ve never actually seen people ask each other out to Prom here… a shame.
ha ha, nice article!
Sweet post; I loved the creativity of all of the “asks.” Cheers! MJ
wow! am sure the girl’s heart jump out of their chests.
wow! am sure the girls’ heart jump out of their chests.
cute stories.
Awwww. I love Cici’s story. It is so unique and i know cici loves her cats. I think she will have a dozen in the future. I hope she had lots of fun at the prom. However her flowers died and it looks sad. QQ the flowers.
Holy crow. I feel so easy. In 1989, my prom date came over to my house and said, “You wanna go to the prom with me?” I was elated. Who knew I had such low standards.
Congratulations on the front page of WordPress, Ryan! Maybe you should start blogging